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The Gay Lifestyle

2010-01-16T20:22:00.000-10:00

This blog, condensed from a gay-male-oriented blog I no longer update, is for emerging gays and anyone else who wonders what "The Gay Lifestyle" is. It's also for anyone who's curious as to what gay marriage is all about.

GAY LIFESTYLES

GAY MARRIAGE

More to come a little later in 2010.

Thanks for stopping by.

Gay Lifestyles

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Thought I'd end this series of photos with a glimpse of the simply fabulous....

From www.rupaul.com:

Gay Lifestyle #49

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From www.mckellen.com:

Gay Lifestyle #48

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From www.abc.net.au:

Gay Lifestyle #47

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From "Gay Caballeros," Dallas Observer:

Gay Lifestyle #46

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From www.nativeout.com:

Gay Lifestyle #45

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From KBTV4.tv:

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From www.affirmation.org:

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From www.gayprisoners.net:

Gay Lifestyle #42

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From Unity Basketball League:

Gay Lifestyle #41

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From www.brakingthecycle.org:

Gay Lifestyle #40

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From www.gay.com/news:

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From gaytoday.badpuppy.com:

Gay Lifestyle #38

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From www.franciscobosch.com:

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From www.gay.com:

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From Wasaga Beach/Toronto PRIDE:

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From www.outsmartmagazine.com:

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From people.tribe.net:

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From www.renaldi.com/portfolio/elderly1.html:

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From www.nwitimes.com/outproud/students.html:

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From Harvard Divinity School:

Gay Lifestyle #30

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From Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Scientists:

Gay Lifestyle #29

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From Gay Medics:

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From Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN):

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From www.pinkpistols.org:

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From www.gayart.biz:

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From Orlando Weekly:

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From Southern California Wrestling Club:

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This is from the International Gay Rodeo Association. I could have selected a photo of a gay rodeo dude in a more triumphant position; the picture below reflects my steadfast rooting for the animal in man vs. beast scenarios.

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From Gay Men's Chorus of Washington, DC:

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From OutSports.com:

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From Congregation Etz Chaim:

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From huriyahmag.com:

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From Gay Latinos, expressgaynews.com:

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From San Francisco State University, Journalism Dept.:

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From Center for Student Cultural Diversity, Univ. of Nevada, Reno:

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From www.house.gov/frank/welcome.html:

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My friend Matt (at a nongay venue). From www.mattyee.com:

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Louie, Coda and me:

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From http://gayandlesbian.aol.com/galleries/pets2:

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From: www.nowpublic.com/gay_firefighters:

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From The Seattle Times:

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From http://gayandlesbian.aol.com/galleries/spousesforlife:

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From Gays in Faith Together, Teens N' Twenties

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From Le FC Paris Arc en Ciel:

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From www.nsync.com:

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From SLG (South London Gays):

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From http://gayandlesbian.aol.com/galleries/military:

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"Gay bowling" photo from a defunct blog:

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From www.christcovenant.org:

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Many people, including some members of the "struggling with SSA" crowd, have a twisted view of reality when it comes to gays and how they live. I've decided it's time to share more information about the "real" gay lifestyle. Hence this new series of short blog entries. Enjoy.

From www.ourfamily.org:

What gay marriage is

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Here's some of what gay marriage -- or any committed relationship between two gay people -- is:

Gay marriage is entering into an exciting but scary new realm of human existence, a realm where the focus on "me" transforms (eventually) into a focus on "us."

Gay marriage is the happiness and thrill of moving into your first new place together.

Gay marriage is missing your spouse desperately when the two of you are separated for a prolonged period of time.

Gay marriage is arguing, during the first year or two, about things that never ever are contentious in later years.

Gay marriage is finally allowing yourself to be totally vulnerable in front of another person and not worry that your vulnerability will be exploited.

Gay marriage is being deeply worried and anxious when you have to take your spouse to the emergency room because he is feeling very ill.

Gay marriage is not being able to fathom life without your spouse.

Gay marriage is professing your love for your spouse daily -- or more frequently.

Gay marriage is snuggling with your spouse under the blankets on a frigid winter night.

Gay marriage is smiling instead of cringing when your spouse hugs you and his unshaven face makes the nerve endings on your neck go into hypersensitive mode.

Gay marriage is doing a chore that your spouse was supposed to do, and not minding doing it.

Gay marriage is inviting friends or family over for a 4th of July cook-out and putting on a mini-fireworks-display in the back yard.

Gay marriage is quitting your job and moving to a distant city so your spouse can take a new job that will advance his career.

Gay marriage is going with your spouse to a social event that you know you will loathe, but not getting mad at him when he wants to skip an engagement you want him to attend.

Gay marriage is going on a trip to Europe with your spouse -- and his parents -- and enjoying it.

Gay marriage is being there to support your spouse emotionally when he needs it, and knowing that he'll be there to support you when you need it.

Gay marriage is watching yourselves grow older and marveling at all the many unexpected twists and turns your lives have taken together.

Gay marriage is knowing that the relationship you have with your spouse is good, precious and a true blessing.

Gay marriage is both you and your spouse wishing you knew each other when you were children.

Gay marriage is watching, over some period of years, as sex falls lower and lower on your list of what's important in a marriage.

Gay marriage is being amazed that, after 25 years, your love for each other still grows deeper.

Gay marriage is knowing that no person, no institution, no thing could split the two of you up.

Gay marriage is accepting that, at various times, you'll experience hurt, reassurance, anger, joy, distrust, respect, jealousy, understanding, confusion, bliss, resentment, praise, sorrow, guilt, self-affirmation, the sense that life is a dream, and the sense that life is a nightmare.

Gay marriage is -- a lot like a good heterosexual marriage, isn't it?